Show Up with Enthusiasm
The best sexplay happens when you are happy and excited to be there. Love what you do, show up and stay present. Set the mood and reward your partner with moans of encouragement and reciprocal play.

My favorite sexplay finds its way to 69 and is foreplay for the events to come.
Here are my tips for 'Going Down' as a part of foreplay or sexplay.
Listen and Communicate
Communication is Key. Use body language, eye contact, dirty talk and moaning to guide the fellatio journey.
Tune In
Watch, listen and encourage your partner to communicate what is working. By showing up and staying present you will learn what works best.
Turn On
Know their “turn-ons”. Get ready to perform. If you are on the receiving end, guide your pleasure with dirty talk and moans.
Dress the Part. Show up fresh and clean. Whether lingerie, naked, or roll playing with pigtails all will be appreciated.
Bring it. This is a dance that may require your full attention. Use your eyes, hands, mouth, and body. Shame is not welcome here!
Set the Mood
Dial in the music, lighting, and ambiance. Dress the part, make eye contact and don’t forget that magic mouth and hands.
Tanya’s Tip: Be the Star. Dial in visuals by incorporating mirrors and even broadcasting video from phone to TV. Visuals make everything better.
Practice, Practice, Practice
Nothing comes easy. You will only get better with practice.
1, 2, 3... Yes!
Start with a hand job and don’t forget the lube.
Keep the silicone lube handy. Reducing friction goes a long way.
While blowing, create sexual tension by teasing the erection from soft to hard.
Go slow, fast, faster, and slow again, kissing, licking, flicking, and sucking. Tease and titillate to completion or better yet, hold off altogether.
Use those magic hands while sucking and don’t be afraid to apply pressure, hold on tight and then release and hold and pump again.
Lick, tickle, suck, and flick. Spend time on the head and don’t forget the shaft and balls.
Practice taking it deep, you will be surprised how far you can go without gagging.
Tread carefully with the teeth. Gentle nibbles can be fun, but don’t take this too far. Teeth are seldom welcome. Use lips and tongue to create a barrier between teeth.
Get Down On It. Find positions that allow you to move and flow easily.
Practice, dial in and find the rhythm that works best to prolong the pleasure. Now, practice, practice, practice.
Tanya’s Tip: Show up fresh and clean. Encourage and reward your partner to do the same.
Rhythm, Breath, and Control
If you are bringing the Disco Stick, communication and control is key. The goal is not to finish first or fast. This will prolong the pleasure and keep your partner coming back for more.
Find your rhythm, breathe and stay present. Communicate what is working best, guide the process and enthusiastically savor every moment.
It Takes Two to Tango
Both giver and receiver each have a part to play.

Tanya’s Tips: If bringing cannabis to the party, edible sexplay is a great way to increase arousal, free the mind and titillate the senses, elevating sound, visuals, taste, smell, and touch.
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